ICJudaism: A Teacher’s Guide to Judaism

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The contents of these pages represent the author’s personal views, experience and understanding.
There are bound to be some things here that some Jews would disagree with.

 

Shabbat 4

After synagogue, the rest of the day will be spent at home. There will be lunch (usually cold, since the food will have been prepared before Shabbat began, although there are some traditional slow cooked stews that can be started before Shabbat and left to slow cook overnight) and a quiet afternoon of family time. In many Jewish households the TV, radio, computers, mobile phones and games consoles will be left switched off throughout Shabbat and the telephone will go unanswered.

As evening draws on Shabbat is ended with a simple ceremony called Havdalah (meaning separation). Havdalah begins with a blessing said over a cup of wine. A box of sweet smelling spices (often cloves and cinnamon) is passed round for everyone to smell. A plaited candle with more than one wick is lit - a sure sign that Shabbat is over because lighting flames is forbidden on Shabbat. A blessing is said thanking God for separating the holy and secular aspects of life. The wine is drunk, saving just a little which is used to extinguish the candle by dipping the wicks in it. Finally the family wish each other Shavuah tov (Hebrew) or Gute vokh (Yiddish) (meaning Have a good week) and Shabbat is over.

In many families Havdalah is delayed until an hour after dark - to make Shabbat last just that little bit longer.

                                                                   

After Havdalah, it is common for each family member to add a small amount of money to a Tzadakah (Charity) box which, when full, will be donated to a chosen charity.

 

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A Havdalah “set” consisting of a candle holder  (with Havdalah candle, a wine cup and a spice box).

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